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You're a female.

Yeah but do they have a penis or a vagina? It’s impossible to have both or neither I AM SO CONFUSED

What non binary means is that you are just narcissist in disguise. I am so special there is not even a term for me lmao

I believe that we are trans bc there is a biological sex that is non binary, intersex to be specific, that makes up two percent of the population. Non binary people are able to transition to be physically non binary. The only people who really say that are the ones who call most non binary people fakers. They simply just want attention taken away from enbies for themselves if I have to be honest about most of them.

Non binary means you don't want to be seen as a man or a woman but you'd like to cherry pick the best things about being female with the best things about being male to suit yourself. It's utterly ridiculous.

Zzzzzzzzz more zzzzzzz nights!!!!!

you are either male or female and your lifestyle has nothing to do with your gender. simple

This world is becoming more confusing

Short, simple, to the point 🫶 thank you! 💛🤍💜🖤

It’s not too late to turn to Jesus he always loves you even when your wrong

I want to be a potato

look inside your pants if you have penis or busy bro

Atlas, this poem helped me realise i didnt love myself and needed to transition. Im now happy and years on HRT. Thankyou for posting this. this will forever be a crucial part of my transition story. <3

This is really powerful! Both the story itself, and how you ended by saying it’s ok to protect things about you if it’s not safe. Beautiful ❤

So you have both penis and vagina ?

cam-pa-ga-ney-mayn-goos yes. these are all great but this is just yes.

Keep misgender

There's things that people are dysphoric about that can't (yet) be changed medically or otherwise. You can even be dysphoric about something without even making an attempt at even "hiding" it. A lot of transmasculin people are dysphoric about their height, but besides platform shoes (which may seem feminine to some) and vertical stripes for optical illusion (which would also make someone look narrower) there's not much you could do about that.

7 hermetic principles, especially read 7. 1: The principle of mentalism. “The All is Spirit; the Universe is Mental. 2. The principle of agreement. “As above, so below; as below, so above. 3.The principle of vibration. “Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates. 4.The principle of polarity. “Everything is dual; everything has poles; everything has its pair of opposites; equal and unequal are the same; opposites are identical in nature but different in degree; extremes meet; all truths are only half-truths; all paradoxes can be reconciled. 5. The principle of rhythm. “Everything flows, out and in; everything has its tides; all things rise and fall; the pendulum movement manifests itself in everything; the measure of the pendulum to the right is the measure of the pendulum to the left; rhythm compensates. 6.The principle of cause and effect. “Every cause has its effect; every effect has its cause; everything is done according to the law; chance is just a name for the law that is not recognized. 7.The principle of gender. “Gender is in everything; everything has its masculine and feminine principles; gender manifests itself in all areas.

I will say and think whatever I damn well please

LOVE the name Atlas. I use it as a nickname on one of my personal blogs. My pronouns are he/him and ey/em.

Hi, @Atlas Wylde thank you for being so candid and honest, opening up about really difficult things. I am a lesbian, and femme presenting, but I am here to say that some of what you're speaking of is more commonly felt than it seems. They are just not spoken about. I'm happy in my female body, for the most part, but I m ME, and have always embraced my masc side just as well. A great example of this is periods. I can relate explicitly with you, Atlas, tho I've never described the experience. Thank you for doing so, that it will resonate with so many. I have a few hormone issues, and completely dissociate from my body from ovulation onwards. It's a dichotomy in me I don't really understand, because I love my body, and would love to bring a child into the world, but mestruation feels so foreign and wrong in me. From the age of 12, the dysphoria I experience from day 11 til a week after the bleed begins is just horrid. I've really struggled with this experience. I feel blessed, in a way, that I can escape this in my imagination, and dress and behave in a more relaxed or masc way. Only time this causes difficulty for me is now, when my partner actually embraces my feminine side as a preference. we're working this out. I love the way you express your experiences, and thoughts go out to you, and others who experience similar. It's a real journey. But it's also you, Atlas. That makes it okay. Sending love ❤

It was this exact msg, from Steven Universe, that helped me to change and become the person id always wanted to be deep down; and it was instrumental for me to learn this, havin been raised to believe very much the opposite about myself... Tho i believed it about others all too easily, even when they clearly hadnt changed I was introduced to Steven Universe at the time when i needed him the most, in late 2015; after havin been fully abandoned by biofam who believed me only a burden, and mirrorin that with bein accepted in with open arms by someone who was only a stranger when the day began And then was tellin me he wanted me to consider it home, for as long as i needed; and he meant it, and he helped me on my feet, and introduced me to not just SU, but vlogbrothers and the whole idea of bein a lifelong learner He, and his friends, all gen were interested in my infodumpin and were always goin out of their way to accommodate me even before i realised i needed such. They helped me get a job workin where they worked, and they made me feel safe enuf to actually not burn myself out in six months like id done at every prior job id held. I held that job til the pandemic; then quit on my own terms knowin i had ppl to support me, sm ppl by then. Mutual aid is how i survived in sm ways, but for a little over a yr from 20-21 i survived almost entirely off of direct financial mutual aid from my local commUnity; until able to move in with my fiance (he/they). Tho even still we survive on such, bcuz commUnity cares; smth else I was taught by bein taught that i cud change, that ppl cud truly change... Unlike my abusers who only claimed to change In 2018 tho, thats when i rly had to reexamine the idea that i cud change; and rly internalise it. Bcuz thats when i first saw an openly nonbinary person who was even dressed exactly as id always wanted to dress; deep down, but felt wasnt allowed... 9 months later i was comin out as nonbinary my ownself and truly beginnin to change, to finally come out of the cocoon id built up to protect my fragile self from harm; I was finally able to be the wonderful beautiful moth in pride mo(n)th that i am :3 My comin out exp was fast indeed when the shell finally cracked, but only bcuz i was surrounded by sm found family who supported me endlessly when i needed it the most. And ofc they accepted me every step along the way, and they even came together to offer me all the support i needed to quit drinkin after one particular bad binger around a traumaversary. Beyond that, they even accepted me as i figured out my disabilities and asked for accommodations; with a particular incident of me shuttin down around them bein what even led to my eventual dx of such. A fellow autistic friend even suggested it and was the one who instantly knew what to do to accommodate me when i did shutdown and go off and sit in the fetal position bcuz i was overloaded sensorily Further still, theyve accepted that im a Little; theyve loved me all the same, and theyve shown me again that ppl can change; and ppl can accept when i change too. Ive had some of them outright tell me i helped them become more understandin of this stuff My own fiance was even anti-ABDL before meetin me online in an autistics group and gettin to know me; bcuz he was instantly curious in this whole Little stuff that i was so open about.... And ffw half a yr and they were askin if i wanted him to be my mommy and then prty soon after to wed them as well :3 My life has changed immensely in the past decade, but only bcuz i was able to believe that i was capable of changin; and i was surrounded by ppl deadset on makin me believe such Legit, before 25 (2015) i was unable to imagine a future with me in it; not as i thowt that future wudve to be... Now i cant believe that the dream im livin is reality; bcuz this future is far better than past me cudve believed in faer wildest imaginations My life has been vastly improved by believin i was capable of change; and cuttin off those who believed otherwise or even insisted otherwise. Tho my biodad deserved cuttin off for far more things; the straw that pushed the camel over the edge for me with him was when he has such a strong reaction to my changing my name; and my choice to recognise chosen family over absent abusive abandonin biofam I decided shortly after he wasnt gonna get to see me again and the next time he emailed me i just emailed back "Dont contact me again" and my life has been far better for it. My biomom took me longer to cut off, and it wasnt until i moved in with my mommy/fiance that i was able to do such He supported me a lot and reminded me endlessly, and still does for that matter, which gave me the ability to rly recognise how my biomom still wasnt changin; and i was able to cut her off in time, and my mental health has fared far better for it. She had failed me in endless ways and was only hurtin me to be around even in just an online text msg convo The ppl whove refused to accept that change is possible are no longer allowed in my life, and my life has been vastly better for it. Im surrounded by a lovin polycule family and an extended found family aplenty; and theyre always there to offer me love and support, sans judgment based on X example of past me with no regard for the actual clear change that has happened or how ones abilities vary from day to day... Bcuz no one doesnt change! Thats the beauty of bein human; we get to change. We get to become new ppl. We get to reinvent ourselves. We get to work on ourselves. We get to improve ourselves. We get to become ppl we are prouder of being. We get to change; and change; and change; and change; and change No matter how much we change, we still find that there are sm other humans also always changin and always lookin to remind others that they can change; even when those others are actively punchin them into giant crystals on the back of gem extractors I dont need you to respect me, i respect me; i dont need you to love me, i love me. But i want you to know that we could be the best of friends, if youd change your mind, change your mind, change your mind; change your mind

It's not society it's Nature that Decides smfh it's not hard at all it's not about feelings it's about facts

I have a pronoun problem too. I keep using the pronoun, "asshole" when I refer to a liberal.

Aurora not feminine?

You are a mix up person) what is like to be feeling like a woman or a man / how do u know how which you are in/ you mind is also sick

I accept you for who you are but having attended public school they/them is plural used when talking about a group or multiple people. I don’t believe you have a mental illness so you don’t have multiple personality disorder, so it just doesn’t make sense. I’m almost 70 and I would be proud of you if you were my daughter so this is not hate or phobic, I just don’t understand when you say you want to be referred to as being multiple people. Best wishes and I hope you find yourself. I would welcome your response. With respect.

Thank you for sharing Atlas, been following you for yearsss and I'm so glad to see you finally live your truth 💜

Eight or so years ago when I was going through my initial gender crisis, your video about being nonbinary but still using she/her pronouns was very important to me. I think I was in a similar situation where I am neither man nor woman but this is what I've always been called, therefore it must be neutral because I am using it...and it's the path of least resistance. I really appreciate this followup as I've started mixing up my pronouns since then. I still don't feel like my journey is over, but I know hearing about your journey will help me on my way. <3

this is deep, thank you for sharing :) I have no idea what my self would be in 20 years, I certainly have no clear vision, but that sounds like an amazing experience and I'm so happy for you!

a thing i quickly found in my own recovery some years ago was that it was infinitely easier to tend to and care about myself and understand my needs, when i imagined facing a second azurelore-my ideal self, whom i wanted the world for even as i failed to acknowledge the current me. befriending that "perfect" azure allowed me to step outside my habits and doubts and preconceptions as to what options were really available to me, and see the task of self-care not as a chore but an act of love. and the clarity this perspective lent me, it's the single most profound time and decision in my life. forty-one years, and i had never actually gotten to know myself as a person. i had never seen myself as someone to listen to and respect and try my best to support and affirm, and from the other side of things, the sheer relief i came to feel from finally being heard-by myself-fed into the start of a sense of euphoria that i have tried to maintain on some level ever since.

Why was I recommended this tripe? "Non-binary" another term for "Attention seeker". You are a lesbian women.

Call yourself whatever you like but I see a woman and will address you as such. My truth.

If we had used 'we' pronouns to talk about ourselves in the 1st person, then there wouldn't have been so many questions about why enby folks ask others to use 'they/them' pronouns when referring to them. Thank you for this video; it delivers a very powerful message! Honestly, on this platform, I feel lonely as a non-binary creator. I've almost been convinced that nobody takes enby folks seriously anymore. I'm non-binary, but I more often go by she/her pronouns and he/him, plus they/them occasionally

Hey. Someone told me I only want to be GenderQUEER, because it's cool to be Gay now. And I'm like, dude, Gays like the same sex as them. I don't identify as any of the gender binary. I don't fit in either of your boxes. It's true that Genderqueer is still part of the LGBTQIA++ community but we don't identify as neither male or female. As opposed to Gays or Lesbians, who are people who like the same sex as them which still fits the gender binary which we GQ/NB don't.

formerly chiefdancingostriche. my new channel name is NBCWASWRONGTOCANCELQUANTUMLEAP. i am janis and i am a transgender woman.

this made me cry (in a good way), thank you so much for making and sharing this, Atlas. when you said "dont be afraid that there isn't enough" and later "you are encouraged to change", both really got me. i love that the version of you that this exercise brought up was a protector of you, something about that really strikes me too. i think it's because i could imagine this exercise bringing up fears for people, where people might have a vision of a version of themselves in the future that's based on their fears coming true. but i work in mental health care, so that might be based on the types of reactions i often see. but it sounds like for you this opened a sort of portal where you could access this wisdom that was within you, coming from this place of deep strength, bravery, patience, perseverance, trust, that was already leading you here all this time. i always love your perspective and am grateful that you shared it. it lead me to think about the many facets of my own sense of self that i feel unsure of how to conceptualize both to myself and the world at times, and this video felt like an invitation into a space where it is safe to explore these things. thank you.

Been with you since the earliest days. Wonderful to see you pop-up in my subscriptions Atlas!

It's a super interestng story, thank you for sharing it! It`s a great reflexion to have actually I think.

thank you for sharing your story! 😊

Thank you for sharing. It's so beautiful when we meet people and/or ourselves in a safe place, our true self will speak." Be patient, be present, be kind to yourself"...exactly what I am feeling in it all. Continued work is hard work but beautiful work. Thank you beautiful soul. 😊

This is going to help so many people. You are fucking incredible. <3 <3 <3

I am so glad for your content. I have an 18 yo daughter who has changed prnouns as she has developed. So i came here to learn and understand. Thank you for your content! a grateful mom!

Thank you so much for sharing. I wanted to let you know I saw your TEDx about The Gender Tag Project a few years back, and it was the first time I’d ever heard the term non-binary. I was in my mid 40’s and as you described what it was and your experience I began to sob uncontrollably. I finally had a label for what I’d felt my entire life. It was at that moment I figured out who I was. I can’t thank you enough for your honesty and bravery. You changed my life.

You are a woman who doesn’t like other “ordinary” women! That’s it!

I think the name adrie really stuck❤

i was born over 60 years ago and you expect me to conform to a culture that is foreign to me. As far as the concept of disrespect goes, you nor anyone else can disrespect me. Only I can choose to feel disrespected based on my values and beliefs.

You are so hot 🔥

So basically non binary means not a man/boy or a women/girl, am I right